Not certain which forum this belongs in so…….
Let me begin this post by stating that in the months that I have been a member here at TPE I have gained a lot of knowledge about tournament poker. I have greatly enjoyed and benefited from this site as a whole. Within the same time period changing circumstances have forced me to take a somewhat introspective view of myself and the way I approach the many different aspects that constitute my life. Poker being one of those aspects, and this being a site made up of poker players I have decided to share some of the realizations that I have come to about myself as a poker player and hopefully get some feedback and advice from some of you.
Realization #1 :
Being able to beat live 1/2 and 2/5 NL and live 30 to 175 dollar tournaments over decent samples for a great hourly/ good ROI respectively does not make me a great player, or as my grandpa used to say, ” that don't make you amount to a pimple on a cowboys ass son”. It also does not translate to online play at anywhere near the same stakes. Some of the reasons for this are obvious ones. Some I believe to be more subtle. One of the obvious ones being of course that live games as a whole are simply softer than online games as a whole. I think this has to do with the size and concentration of the player pool as well as other factors. Any thoughts on more of the obvious or more subtle ones? Any advice on adapting?
Realization #2:
Self discipline is everything for me as not only a poker player, but as a person as well. On the poker side self discipline includes: solid bankroll management, managing time put in playing and studying the game, managing and scheduling time away from the game ( see realization #3), and managing profits and losses responsibly, i.e. not blowing half the days winnings at the blackjack table or trying to impress the hotties strategicaly placed behind the bars in the clubs that are strategically placed between the casino floors and the hotels and exits.
Realiztion #3: For me sometimes there is a fine line between taking my game seriously and being a compulsive player. I grow weary of the game rather quickly at times and when I do so I MUST take a break. When I say a break I do not mean an hour or two. I mean a day or two, a week or two, or whatever it takes to get me back to the point where I enjoy playing. If I am enjoying playing the game I feel as if I am playing so much better.
Any advice on developing more stamina for longer sessions and more consecutive sessions before wearing out?
This is the order in which these realizations came to me. I know some may say, “DUH!! These are a no brainer”, or ” Wow we have been over and over this already”. Well I assure you that they were not a no brainer for me.
I believe if I address #2, #1 may go a long way toward taking care of itself. If I forget #3…… well, I won't have to worry with it at all because my tilty rear end will go broke if I forget about #3.
I welcome everyones thoughts, advice, and criticism.
Thanks for your time
Pokerstars:shangobango
AP:SHANGO_BANGO
HI,
I sincerely wish i had great advice for you regarding all the things you touched on; the reality is that i struggle with
alot of the very things you mentioned. I go back and forth alot between thinking my game is finally coming into its
own, running well in live cash and online/live tourns, and then, after variance, running bad, a few bad decisions on
my part kick in, feeling like the biggest donk in NJ 🙂
I often compare my progess to the hamster on that round trendmill thing.
Anyway, here are two things that i hope may help:
1) ON the self discipline part, if you are going to be a serious poker player for the long haul, and assuming that you
are not rich, or have a pending trust fund, it is a great idea, to do what i did, and give up all forms of gambling;
no day trading, blackjack, craps or slot machines, as the variance to your poker bankroll takes enough hits,
from just playing poker, it does not need any other financial stressers.
2) ON the stamina situation, do not feel bad if you need to take a day, a few days, or even a week off.
I am very obsessive in almost everything i do; it used to be very common for me to come home from
work, eat a quick dinner, kiss my wife, log onto a site, play for 8-10 hours (after already working 8 or
more hours earlier in the day) then repeat 3 to 5 days in a row.
It didn't take long for me to feel burnt out, tired, and have my performance suffer, not just at poker, but
in my day job, and personal relationships as well. What i do now is if i am playing a long session, which for
me is eight or more hours, i will take the next day, sometimes the next two days off. I will only play
consecutive days if i keep each session short, like 2-3 hours. The hardest thing for me has been NOT
to play, if i really don't FEEL like playing. We're all trying to make $$$, but hell, this is supposed to be fun
too. It's not fun if you happen not to feel like playing at the time.
I am currently reading a book you might like: “Peak Performance Poker-revolutionizing the way you view
the game” by Travis Steffen. Check it out, it may prove helpful.
Good luck to you!
Ken (kowins1 on this site, kenwins1 on ft, ko1u0 on pocketfives)
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