seriously ask yourself, are you being results oriented in this post?

seems to be like you both flopped monsters and the moneh was going in whatever happened. obviously a crushing river card, but i dont think you could do much about that

hmmm. 

just been playing with pokerstove, and i am wondering whether its as clear as we make it out to be

i think bvb, villain 3bets a whole bunch of ace hands so it takes a lot of those hands away from us. 

with our pot odds its still probably a shove once we get raised but its not cut and dry. 

or am i overthinking this a bit?

here is a tight range, assuming we bet 3bet a bunch of the time with AJ+ hands. it actually doesn't look that great for us. i think the fact that the A isn't a spade changes this hand a LOT

  32,670  games     0.005 secs     6,534,000  games/sec
Board: Ah Ts 5sDead:  
equity win tie      pots won pots tied

Hand 0: 42.694%   42.69% 00.00%         13948        0.00   { Td5d }

Hand 1: 57.306%   57.31% 00.00%         18722        0.00   { 55, ATs-A9s, As8s, As7s, As6s, As5s, As4s, As3s, As2s, KsQs, KsJs, KsTs, QsJs, QsTs, ATo-A9o, A5o }

here is a slightly wider range 

60,390  games     0.031 secs     1,948,064  games/sec
Board: Ah Ts 5sDead:  
equity win tie      pots won pots tied

Hand 0: 53.584%   53.58% 00.00%         32358        1.50   { Td5d }

Hand 1: 46.416%   46.41% 00.00%         28029        1.50   { TT, 55, A9s+, As8s, As7s, As6s, As5s, As4s, As3s, As2s, KsQs, KsJs, KsTs, QsJs, QsTs, AQo-A9o, A5o }